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The Loc'd Bella is a lifestyle blog. I aim to inspire professional-millennial women to transform themselves into powerhouses and be their authentic selves while doing what they love through this online platform

 

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“Yes, you’re out having fun with bae and all of a sudden, you felt it. You know what I’m talking about. I’m talking about periods, baby! But no worries, you’re all set because you packed your @Tampax Pocket Radiant tampons. Not every outfit requires a pad and pulling out a large tampon is not an option at your day date with your Baby Boo.” The way I see it, Pocket Radiant tampons are about to be the clutch this season. Not to mention, they’re selling over at @walmart . Guess who’s stocking up this Summer? #thelocdbella #ad #RadiantRefresh. (PS: click the link in bio. You’re welcome! 😘)
Seriously... there’s so much room that I just don’t understand the “crabs in a barrel” mentality with some of you. I’ve said it to those I consider friends/family and even acquaintances I randomly meet at events - if there’s something you’ve got going on that you think I can assist with (of course without you taking serious advantage of my kindness and time) I’ll help. If you’re having a bad day, I’ll send you memes ( or flowers), you want to do more conferences so I’ll connect you with those who do conferences on a reg. Am I perfect? Heck nah! Do I fuck up? Yes! Can I go mia and not reply to text messages? Yes! Does that mean I’m not willing to see you win? Not the fucking case. But it only takes a minute to look out for the next sister, folks! I know it could be daunting to think about someone else than self when pursuing your goals. However, your network is your net worth. Your network is what’s going to put you on and keep you on. ‘‘Tis all on this beautiful Wednesday! (Damn! It’s Wednesday already?? ) 💛
Sometimes, you'll hear lines like "you've changed" from the folks you care the most for. However, that's not a bad thing. People who've known you for a while, unknowingly create these mental boxes that they've placed you in. They've simply compartmentalized who you are, what you do, and who you're expected to become from their perspective and anything that challenges that faux-narrative for you feels like a betrayal. Understand growing up isn't wrong. You changed. Yes! They didn't. As you grow, so their perception of who and what you are should as well, but some folks do not see it that way. Whatever you do, do not FEEL SORRY for growing up. It's necessary for survival. - Link in bio for the rest. It’s an old post, but stumbling upon it just reaffirmed the current journey I’m on. 📸: My Instagram Boyfriend 😂 @professorbooze #TheLocdBella #QueerAF #Pride
Take me back... Montana I have this traveling bug that just won’t go away. 😫 T - 17 days until my month of “don’t call me for sh*t unless it’s an emergency or to tell me how awesome I am” mode. 😂😂 #BellaPeruses #thelocdbella
A lot of people have an iconic coming out story. The whole "sitting down with loved ones" and finally saying out loud that they're a part of the LGBTQIA community. I didn't have that. For the latter part of my teenage years and my early-mid 20's, a part of me was engulfed by fear. The fear of rejection or not being understood didn't allow me to smile more and live an honest and open life. If we were close, you knew who I was dating. It didn't need to be spread across social media nor blasted in books. But if you asked, I'd answer honestly. Suddenly, the death of my father happened and it's as if a switch turned on. Fear of being rejected went out the window. Censoring self was no longer an option. I made a promise to myself to live my most authentic and best life out loud, happy, proud, and fabulous and my aim is to encourage others to do the same. And this smile? It is a reminder that even on days when I feel like everything is against me, I am still blessed to have those who support and show up for me in any way that they can. I am loved. I am appreciated. I am a beauty. (Ps: this #Pride salad at @justsalad was poppin AF! Guess who’s going back for the avocado toast?! 👀🤷🏾‍♀️ Judge me. IDC. I love food. Thanks @maxrut for putting me on! My Monday lunch was LITTY! 😂👌🏾) #JustProud #thelocdbella #LiveCourageously
#Ad I can count on both hands how many times I’ve seen articles about balance. For me, I balance my workload, sweet diets, & adventures with one thing: WINE. To me, the best way to survive summer without feeling like you’re missing out is to add some fresh greens, a glass (or in my case - a cup) of wine, and a little bit of everything else. Thanks to @chwine , I was able to enjoy a bottle of Reisling that landed on my doorstep directly from the source. @chwine is one of the few Direct-To-Consumer wine brands out there. And if you’re like me, you’d understand that not only does your wine taste like heaven, it hasn’t exchanged multiple hands before it gets to you... which means more 💵💵 in my wallet. I wrote up a review of the whole experience. Go read. Drop a comment below! What’s your favorite wine? Should we start wine parties or nah? #thelocdbella #BellaEats #CHWineSummer
[“Friendship isn’t about who you’ve known the longest,” one read. “It’s about who came and never left your side.”] This is just a glimpse of @elizagriswoldauthor ‘s new book #amityandprosperity . Am I envious of Stacey and Kelly’s bond? Heck yes! But it inspires you to dig deep in your own connections and see who’s really there for you. I’ve added it to June’s Book Club list because it explores the depth of friendships, passion for justice, and the ability of one family to change history. I highly recommend picking up a copy. It’s being released on @amazon @barnesandnoble @powellsbooks on June 12th. We’re talking about a book that’s been deemed as the best book of the summer by @glamourmag . So check my story for the link! Don’t hesitate to drop a note or DM once you’re done reading. I’m all up for a discussion 😌. #thelocdbella #BellaReads #Ad
Currently thinking about the @explorewhitefish trip from last year and I cannot wait to share my overall love on this coming week. I honestly posted this because it was taken after an amazing massage on the cabin’s premises & with the craziness this week, that’s all I’m craving for right now. The tears, stress, lack of sleep, and emotional roller coasters of this week requires a full body massage, three martinis, a vodka rum, Chips Ahoy, sleep, and silence. Judge me. IDGAF 😂😂. I’m entitled. Side note: Montana gave me the best: BBQ ribs, sushi, family-friendly activities, river rafting, biking up the mountains, clean air, inclusive environment ever! Definitely planning a personal trip back. #explorewhitefish #bellaperuses #thelocdbella
They are right... walking the road less traveled is scary as sh*t but worth every moment. #thelocdbella #livingcourageously
When it’s Monday but you wish it was Friday because you’re already over the human race and just want to vacation on someone’s beach with your 🐕 & 🖤. Pineapple and vodka on the rocks with a shot of Jack on the side with some lime please and thanks! Maybe I’m being a drama queen, or not... either way it’s 8pm some where. Bottoms up! 🍻 What’s your favorite drink? #thelocdbella